Some great tips for We-Vibe on how to keep the intimacy alive in your relationship…

Life is busy. It’s easy to put the million little things you need to do each day ahead of your partner. Maybe you’ve started taking each other for granted. Maybe the kids are draining all of your energy. Maybe you’ve simply slipped into a rut.

None of these scenarios are unusual. When intimacy starts to fade between you and your partner, you may begin to feel irritable and under-appreciated. Before you know it, arguments are sure to follow.

By following a few simple steps, you can not only strengthen your relationship, but no doubt feel a spring in your step in other areas of life as well.

1. Make it a date night

This is an oldie, but a goodie. There’s a reason you’ve heard this advice before: it works.

Set a time, get a babysitter and make a break for it on a regular basis. It doesn’t have to be weekly; putting aside the time even just once a month to enjoy each other will make a huge difference. You will come back home with fresh eyes and your relationship will benefit from it.

2. Show some appreciation

Simple acts of gratitude for your partner can often get lost amidst the day-to-day hustle and bustle of life. It is important, however, to stop to say thank you every once in a while. It doesn’t have to be bunches of flowers, or expensive gifts; a hug or a simple word of thanks can be just as meaningful.

Try to find something every day, no matter how small, to compliment them on. You will be surprised at how far a ‘thanks for dinner’ or ‘thank you for taking the bins out’ will get you!

3. Share a laugh

Couples that laugh together stay together, right? Don’t forget to laugh with each other. It can bring you closer together than almost anything else.

Find ways to be playful and look for ways to giggle. Humor fosters creativity, which all good relationships need to thrive. Watch a comedy together, share a daggy joke, and try to remember those old things that sparked your relationship in the first place. After all, life isn’t meant to be taken too seriously.

4. It takes two

When it comes to intimacy in the bedroom, remember that it takes two. Nothing kills the mood like routine, so don’t be afraid to try new things with your partner to help you re- connect. Taking things outside of your comfort zone in the bedroom will bring you closer together and give you another experience to share as a couple.

Trying a product like the We-Vibe 4 can help reignite that sexual spark. The We-Vibe offers mutual pleasure for both partners in a non-threatening way, so it can be a perfect fit even for those couples that may be nervous about adding sex toys into the mix.

5. Free up space

Don’t be afraid to say no to the things that drain your energy. If little things are continuously bringing you down, or those around you are always making you miserable, it’s going to impact how you relate to your partner and those you love. It can be hard, but it is important to let those things go!

Try to limit the stressful things and people in your life. This is easier said than done of course, but the more stressors you can eliminate outside of your relationship, the more mental bandwidth you’ll have to deal with problems within it.

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  1. tam_watters

    12th October 2014 at 6:20 pm,

    MoM Rewards: tam_watters has a emerald MoM rewards level tam_watters said:

    Great article, wonderful advice and content. Something I really need to work on.

  2. 21st September 2014 at 7:22 pm,

    MoM Rewards: mom87839 has a topaz MoM rewards level mom87839 said:

    We have just got bacj from anight/ day out stayed at a hitel kids looked after and no plans just went with the flow. Ir was cery rekaxing and intresting

  3. buggerit

    21st September 2014 at 10:15 am,

    MoM Rewards: buggerit has a diamond MoM rewards level buggerit said:

    23 years Married today and we are off to Lunch no where fancy just going for a nice drive and where ever we are at lunchtime will do as we have each other. keeping it simple makes life easy.

  4. mom56842

    21st September 2014 at 3:51 am,

    MoM Rewards: mom56842 has a diamond MoM rewards level mom56842 said:

    Never had a date night, guess we’ve never need one – I don’t know, been married 32 years so suppose we must be doing something right :-)

  5. sambii

    14th August 2014 at 8:56 pm,

    MoM Rewards: sambii has a diamond MoM rewards level sambii said:

    My husband and I have just started to figure this all out, after 14 months of babies and exhaustion we’re starting to get back on track with each other, although it is an ongoing work in progress….

  6. Bec

    14th August 2014 at 7:54 pm,

    MoM Rewards: Bec has a topaz MoM rewards level Bec said:

    Great article. Hubs and I try to do date night as often as possible, it really does help! It’s easy to forget what it’s like with just the two of you when kids come along.

  7. ginoula5

    13th August 2014 at 9:08 am,

    MoM Rewards: ginoula5 has a diamond MoM rewards level ginoula5 said:

    Making time for both is a must have, it doesn’t have to be anything extravagant.

  8. makerschke

    26th July 2014 at 7:06 pm,

    MoM Rewards: makerschke has a emerald MoM rewards level makerschke said:

    Date night is important! But make sure you dont do the same thing over and over!!

  9. 18th July 2014 at 8:51 pm,

    MoM Rewards: deangunna has a diamond MoM rewards level deangunna said:

    Affection is important, and doing little treats for each other unexpectantly is lovely too.

  10. meedee

    18th July 2014 at 3:49 pm,

    MoM Rewards: meedee has a diamond MoM rewards level meedee said:

    I think date night is important also but very hard to do when you have children.

  11. 3timesamum

    21st June 2014 at 5:14 pm,

    MoM Rewards: 3timesamum has a diamond MoM rewards level 3timesamum said:

    Good tips on how to keep any relationship healthy.

  12. 20th June 2014 at 6:26 pm,

    MoM Rewards: mom57176 has a ruby MoM rewards level mom57176 said:

    hubby and I have a date night every 2 weeks and look so forward to dressing up out of my kid wear trakkies lol

  13. krissy333

    21st May 2014 at 11:29 am,

    MoM Rewards: krissy333 has a diamond MoM rewards level krissy333 said:

    Great advice! Thanks for the read

  14. Happymum-2

    10th May 2014 at 4:05 pm,

    MoM Rewards: Happymum-2 has a diamond MoM rewards level Happymum-2 said:

    an interesting read, one we should all try to do in our relationships

  15. Happymum-2

    7th May 2014 at 2:03 pm,

    MoM Rewards: Happymum has a diamond MoM rewards level Happymum said:

    a great read, I think when we have kids, intimacy dies

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