I have always had to stand on my own two feet so was never one that would ask for help but since my husband died I realised that I need help. I have found that most people love to help as it makes them feel good. Its a win win

A few very good points there! I’ve always had a problem with asking for help. I find it very hard to get it out if my head that just because I need help doesn’t mean I’m weak, useless or a failure. But I’m working on it!

That’s interesting! Thanks for sharing this!

wonderful

I have such a hard time asking for help. Maybe I should explore the reason why it’s so hard for me to do so.

been in their shoes? offer the help!

I am getting better at this

It is very hard for me to ask for help.

These have been great to read a bit of fun too!

I have always had a problem asking for help, don’t want to appear vulnerable i suppose.

Shared this message yesterday Debbie-a brilliant message and challenge.

I think the important part there is having the network of people around you that you can ask for help.

I’m not ashamed to ask for help when I need it . Thanks for another great video clip Debbie.

This is one of the hardest things to do – ask for help. But it is so easy to give help and to offer to help. I have friends who constantly ask me if I need help, but I never seem to be able to accept as I just don’t know how they can help. Will hope you share some thoughts on this dilemma too, Debbie. But this is being a great challenge.

Asking for help is the hardest thing in the world to do yet we all know that we should