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A PERTH mum has told of her embarrassment when she was asked to leave a seminar hosted by parenting expert Maggie Dent because she was breastfeeding.

Renae Rutherford, 38, was feeding three-week-old Fraser in the performing arts theatre at All Saints’ College in Bull Creek yesterday morning when she got a tap on her shoulder asking her to leave the venue, reports Perth Now.

“To be asked to leave a venue that was hosting a parenting seminar came out of left field,” she said.

“I’m pretty resilient, but I burst into tears and felt embarrassed and humiliated.”

Ms Rutherford finished feeding Fraser in the foyer area. She said members of Maggie Dent’s team, including Maggie’s husband, noticed she’d been crying and were mortified.

“Maggie’s husband was very apologetic and said they would look into it,” she said.

“I was going to drop it,” she said. “But an older gentleman who worked for the events team came up quite aggressively and said: ‘I believe you have a complaint.’ He started lecturing me about their policy and how breastfeeding in the theatre was a hygiene issue.

“He was quite rude saying I needed to consider it was a theatre. I said I was at Heath Ledger Theatre last week and they didn’t take issue with me breastfeeding.

“I said I was disappointed and embarrassed for the school and he sort of scoffed at me and said ‘why would the school be embarrassed?’ He was just rude. He got me angry because he really belittled me.”

All Saints’ College apologised to Ms Rutherford on Facebook last night and said it wasn’t College policy to prohibit breastfeeding on school grounds.

The school said: “We are seeking clarification about this incident today … Every day, women visit our cafe and other venues where they breastfeed if they choose to do so … On days like today, many casual staff are brought in to help facilitate things such as the ushering, cleaning, catering etc.

“We will be looking into this thoroughly, but again, please understand that it is not our policy to prohibit women from breastfeeding at the college.”

Ms Rutherford, a mum-of-two, said she believed she wasn’t the only breastfeeding mum who was tapped on the shoulder.

Maggie Dent last night said: “I am very upset for the mums involved and very disappointed to find that a venue has such a policy in this day and age. We’ll be in contact with all participants about this and naturally we’ll be taking this up further with the venue.”

“As I always welcome breastfeeding mothers to my seminars, I would never have knowingly chosen a venue with a ban on breastfeeding for an event. I present hundreds of seminars every year and I have never encountered a venue that has a ban on breastfeeding, so I was as shocked as the participants.”

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  • Just trying to wrap my head around this If All Saints College is 100,%
    supportive of breast feeding
    in their theatres and Maggie Dent
    Is upset and appalled by what happened at her event
    Then who gave the security workers the authority to remove
    breastfeeding mothers
    Was it a third party (hired security)
    I think there should’ve been better communication between all parties involved


    • Just trying to wrap my head around this If All Saints College is 100,%
      supportive of breast feeding
      in their theatres and Maggie Dent
      Is upset and appalled by what happened at her event
      Then who gave the security workers the authority to remove
      breastfeeding mothers
      Was it a third party (hired security)
      I think there should’ve been better communication between all parties involved

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  • That is terrible. Poor lady.

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  • what an utter disgrace!
    This makes me sick to my stomach.
    How dare they carry on like this and think this is acceptable behaviour. The poor women who were treated this way deserve and apology not just on social media.
    I remember when i was feeding my daughter that even the inlaw side of the family were not as accepting of my decision to breastfeed. Its natural.

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  • Oh poor mum. Still can’t believe how these things happen. Why can’t we feed our baby where we need to. This is so sad

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  • I would be so embarrassed! The poor mum. I thought it was legal to breastfeed in Australia?!

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  • Cant believe how this is still a thing when are we growing to grow up and leave the poor child and mother be

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  • Oh how embarrassing for the poor mother

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  • That’s ridiculous. Poor mum. She would have been embarrassed and from a parenting seminar too. Just horrible.

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  • Wow it’s a hygiene issue to feed your baby? Seriously people need to grow up.

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  • Omg… can’t believe this crap is still happening! It’s 2022, get over breastfeeding. If it makes you uncomfortable, grow up and look away. You don’t even see any boob when someone breast feeds so what is the whole drama?

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  • Being asked to leave for breastfeeding is not okay. Irrespective of the circumstance. Mothers should not be forced to deprive their child of a basic human need for the sake of ‘hygiene compliance’. Absolutely ridiculous excuse

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  • I’ve heard this excuse so many times: “He started lecturing me about their policy and how breastfeeding in the theatre was a hygiene issue.”

    Can someone please explain how breastfeeding is a ‘hygiene issue’?
    Really? I remember once being usher to the toilets to breastfeed my son. I’m sure that’s a bigger hygiene issue than feeding my baby in an open room.

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  • Wow… hope inappropriate for the kind of topic they were covering!
    People can be very nasty sometimes until they’re called up on their behaviour then all of a sudden they don’t know what’s going on – funny that!

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  • ok that is such a poor situation! poor woman!

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  • Terrible thing to happen.

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