May 24, 2018

The second season of ’13 Reasons Why’ is nearly as packed with controversial content as its popular first season.

As the Liberty High kids cope with life in the aftermath of Hannah Baker’s suicide, they also have a lot coming up in their future: a major trial, a potential school shooting, hard-drug abuse, and more blackmail, drama, and mystery.

(Parents can also be aware that Netflix account holders are able to set a PIN code to this or any show that will be required before others can view.)

Teens and parents who watch the show together can talk about any number of issues the show addresses; here are some questions to help get the conversation started:

  • Clay gets a semicolon tattoo to honor Hannah’s memory. This is based on a real-life suicide-prevention movement, Project Semicolon, that raises awareness and offers resources. What are other ways people honor those they’ve lost? How do you think something like this could help people process grief?

 

  • Families can talk about Tyler’s journey. His anger issues led him to make a lot of bad choices, which nearly ended in many people’s deaths by gun violence. How could people around him have supported him better? How can you tell when someone is suffering and needs your help?

 

  • The power of friendship is a theme that runs strongly through Season 2. How have Clay and his group of friends become closer? Do you have friends you’d make sacrifices for? How does the group compassionately support each other during hard times?

 

  • Bullying is still a major part of this series: Threats, physical violence, and other tactics are used to hurt characters and suppress information. Families can talk about bullying in school, how to combat it, and how to make sure you’re not bullying anyone else.

 

  • A few major characters finally speak truths they’ve been holding in for a long time. How does it feel to be honest? How can you support others who are brave enough to tell their stories?

 

  • A character struggles with drug addiction this season. How do his friends respond? Are there better ways to help people dealing with addiction?

 

  • Liberty High students are taught about consent. What is it? Why is it important for teens to have a good understanding of the concept?

 

  • Families can talk about therapy and PTSD. Only one of the Liberty High students is shown going to therapy or talking to professionals about the pain they’ve experienced. Do you think this might help others? Why, or why not? Do you think there’s a stigma regarding this kind of help?

 

  • Self-harm, particularly in the form of cutting, is addressed in this season. Families can learn the signs and know this is a treatable issue with the help of therapy, medication, or both.

 

  • Another violent rape scene occurs in Season 2, this time of a male character. After all the controversy over Season 1, why do you think the creators included this scene? Do you think this kind of realism is necessary for media to make an impact? Why, or why not?

This post originally appeared on Common Sense Media and has been shared with full permission.

Common Sense Media is an independent nonprofit organization offering unbiased ratings and trusted advice to help families make smart media and technology choices. Check out the ratings and recommendations at www.commonsense.org.

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We recently shared on Mouths of Mums how some parents are begging Netflix to Cut “13 Reasons Why” After the Recent School Shooting Incident – read more on that here.

The first season of ’13 Reasons Why’ received heavy criticism for its depiction of suicide, rape, eating disorders and a variety or mental health issues. Read more on that here.

If you are feeling distressed or are concerned about a friend, family member or work colleague, call Lifeline 13 11 14 www.lifeline.org.au, Suicide Call Back Service 1300 659 467 www.suicidecallbackservice.org.au or Kids Helpline 1800 55 1800, www.kidshelp.com.au

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  • My kids are all grown up and see this show exactly how it’s meant to be. It would only be a tiny minority that is negatively affected by watching this

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  • I’m currently watching the second season with my 13 yr old daughter

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  • Thank God I don’t have to Worry about this now mine are all still young


    • Me too my eldest is 9 so not for another few years.

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  • Lots of things to talk about. I don’t think I need a list of questions of points to start a conversation with my teens, but I can imagine when it would be watched at school a list of questions can be handy.

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  • Theres a lot of discussion points from both seasons. I think it is a valuable learning tool for young adults and adults alike! Certainly made me really think about a lot of things.

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