I am seperated from my 3 year old daughter’s father who is a drinker and gambler but denies a problem. He never has the money to help raise his daughter, making up lies why he doesn’t have any. 2 years I have heard these stories and am getting fed up with his lies and lack of financial help. I can not afford to take him to court and he ignores letters from Child Maintenance Dept. What do I do? Can I just refuse to let him see his daughter until he starts paying me and helping out? He see’s her once a fortnight over the weekend? Love to hear your advice.