I have a group of friends that I used to always catch up with on a regular basis. We all have young children so it’s a great little support group. I had my third child recently and since I haven’t been getting invitations to the catch ups. I have tried to organise them myself and they always get cancelled or just don’t come to fruition. We are all still friends and talk via text message regularly, I don’t sense there is a problem, I just don’t know what’s going on. Some days it gets me really upset and I start thinking stupid things like I’m not good enough, or not cool and trendy enough to hang out with them. And my children are very well behaved and polite. All the children get along so well, so I know that isn’t the issue.
Posted anonymously, 28th February 2014