Hello!

I have 2 children & just can’t help but feel I’m not done yet.
They are 6 and 2.
Huge part of me says why not & the other says how will I cope?
Has anyone else had the same experience?


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  • I always said to my hubby that I either wanted 2 or 4. We have 3 and after a rough start she has slotted in seamlessy and is such a little character. I still don’t feel ‘done’ yet but not sure how we could afford another one as much as we both want one. I don’t feel like my little family is complete finished yet


  • I would say, go for it when your desire is there ! Trust that it will work out :)


  • If you can afford it why not. Sounds like you will be happy with a third


  • A comment I heard that always stuck with me was “ You’ll never regret the babies you have, only the ones you don’t”
    We had number 3, 5 months ago.
    After 2 years trying to conceive & then Born at 32 weeks and a long hospital stay we certainly haven’t had the smoothest ride but it’s amazing how well he’s just slotted in to our family. The kids love their brother, the transition from 1-2 was harder than 2-3. He’s the best decision we ever made, and he’s now tempted me for number 4!


  • I’m having this same debate in my mind at the moment too! The only thing stopping me is money. I don’t know if we can afford a third child.


  • I felt the same when I have 2 the urge to have a 3rd one was so strong that I decided to have a 3rd one its a bit difficult during the pregnancy but with the support of my husband It all went well and I am happy that I followed my heart as every thing just fits very well and we are coping very well with a 7yr 3yr and a 3 weeks old


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