My 2.5 year old son says the basic words like Mum, Dad, hello, bye, norner (water), pease (please), tank you (thank you) but he doesn’t string words together, when should I be worried and should he see someone about it?


Posted by kjgarner, 10th August 2018


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  • Good to see you are being proactive with your son’s talking, good luck. I have 3 daughters and they never seem to stop!



  • They will talk when they are ready



  • Thank you for all your comments, really good reading and listening to other’s who are going through similar experiences as my child. We have put in a referral to a speech therapist which they say would take about 6 months to get into and he’ll be 3 ish by then and they said we can always cancel if we don’t need it then.



  • You’ve got some great advice here in these answers. I understand your worry. Sounds like your boy has a few words which is great! I’d ask your GP or child nurse if worried and encourage lots of talking to him – kids pick up way more than we realise!!! Even if they don’t talk back they still get to learn and process and see how words are used. Talking doing everyday things is a great way to build up your child’s vocabulary



  • My son wasn’t talking much either. I had his hearing checked, developmental paediatrician and speech therapist. They were all clear. At age 3 he simply started talking and has hardly stopped since. He is very smart and was tested with a high IQ at age 8.



  • My son spoke with 2,5 years 5 words. The health visitor suggested speech therapy which I did briefly, but actually I didn’t see the problem as there was enough natural progress at that time. There are kids who speak early and kids who speak late, just the same as there are kids who walk early and kids who walk late, toilet train early or late., in which case we also don’t directly seak the help of therapists. Just give it a little time and see how it develops. In the mean time you can do some prompting yourself.



  • My eldest boy started seeing a speech pathologist around the 2.5 year mark because he was very unclear and I was often responding to his gestures and pointing rather than encouraging him to talk about what he wants. Have you had your son’s hearing checked? It is important to do this prior to seeing a speech pathologist as he may have a hearing problem. Boys do tend to be slightly delayed in speech than girls but it’s very important to have him assessed just in case plus it’s good to work with him now because before you know it he’ll be in school and may feel overwhelmed by other kids knowing/communicating more. At first my son was seeing his pathologist once a week but now he’s going once a fortnight (he’s almost 4 now). I also learnt that I need to work on talking out loud more often so he can learn words and how to string them all together.



  • Some kids start to talk later , but a visit to the GP wouldn’t hurt.



  • Have a full medical check done, then see a speech pathologist. In the mean time check out http://www.fedup.com.au take some time to read.



  • I was in a similar situation several years ago when my son was the same age. I would definitely take him and get him assessed. He might just need a little push to start stringing sentences together. But you don’t want to wait until he is starting kindy or school before checking things out, you have nothing to lose and your son has everything to gain and don’t worry until there is something to worry about.



  • When my son was 3 I got concerned as he started school in a years time so we got him into speech therapy 6 months on still waiting to start. He was saying many words bak then, he is saying a lot more words and started to make sentences but is still hard to understand at times. He is very smart and very good physically. Maybe sit down and try helping him with words like picture books and stuff but ask him to tell u what it is ther are ways to help him. I spoke to my health nurse when I became concerned.



  • my son is the same age and still not talking much, i think it is through stubborness but you never know, I have him on a waiting list for a speech therapist just in case, you can always cancel but the waiting lists where i live are really long, maybe get on the list. As soon as we got on the list we noticed him saying a lot more words (also hiding his dummy has helped as well)



  • Heya hun my son is about the same age and he isn\’t really putting to word together yet. And I am not not worried cause children do it in their own time. But if are worried talk to your health visitors and she if can advise you on anything. Do you go to playgroup or does your son go nursery cause he might pick it up and do you read book to him to see if that help and talk to him when your do things. I hope this can help but like I said try not to worry. I am sure he will pick it up in no time and you be will where that come from haha. ???? x



  • Just re read your story , it is up to you. Maybe if you are worried talk to your doctor for hearing test and a referral to a specialist. We did this as our son did not speak at all and that is where learnt the sign language.



  • My 3rd son did not talk until he was 3 plus. We had to resort to sign language not like Auslan but another form where we did different things with fingers to say ” food, drink, toilet, plus some others I have forgotten”. This helped until he began to speak , still had problems but at least we could understand him.


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