I don’t have a daughter but I was awkward and didn’t feel comfortable talking to my mum about periods or anything body related. I think if you have good communication with your daughter you may want to start these conversations when your daughter is close to having body changes, or when her friends have started. This can help her understand a bit about what is happening. Schools do start to inform kids in year 7 I think – but some are already changing by then. I’ve spoken to my male teen about periods etc – so many males freak out about this subject.
I say the younger the better, I do still need to have the conversation with my daughter who is 6 she’s just so innocent and over thinks everything…. but I was only 8 and in grade 3 when I got mine I was very young.
I started talking about periods at a very young age. My daughter was walking around with dolls under her dress pretending she was pregnant at age 5 or 6 or so. I told her then that she has already eggs in her tummy which can become babies when she’s grown up. And that an egg at a certain age every month will leave her body with a bit of blood. These conversation became later more detailed but that was the start and it was very helpful. There was never a hard talk and when the time came she had her first period she was really excited about it !
I think around the age of 10 is a good age. Just talk about it matter of fact, show them the products they use-unwrap them so they can have a good look and feel of them. Let them ask you openly about your experience-be open and honest.
My mum didn’t talk to me about periods, sex, love, relationships etc. So when it happened, I absolutely freaked out! My daughter was 10 when hers started. So I say the earlier the better
I think as a child you are exposed to this quite early from primary school. I remember girls talking about it in year 4. I think it is good to be open and honest with your daughter and emphasise that it is so normal and not scary. I remember not really having the talk with my mum, i just learnt about it at school and it was just such a big shock when it came. Very scary when you are a young girl.
My daughter will be 9 soon… And because I was 11 when I got mine I’m getting prepared for the talk about periods. I have made her a pack that is descreet and included some panty liners and pads as well as tampons to ensure I cover everything.. Although she is young, I’d rather she be prepared and feel she is mature enough for this soon.
When they ask or when they seam curious about it is usually a good time but that will be at a different time for all girls. My daughter knows about it already and she is 6, because she’s asked about it. Perhaps show her a pad and ask her if she know what they are and go from there..
I had the chat with my daughter when she was 11 as i got my first period on my 12th birthday and yep she got hers the day before her 12th birthday so she knew exactly what to expect and what to do.
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