My daughter has just been diagnosed with autism. Does anyone have some things they do at home and in the community to support positive behaviours and reduce the negatives?


Posted anonymously, 10th March 2019


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  • The number one thing you can do is find a way to be in touch with #actuallyautistic people, especially adults. They will know what is helpful and what harmful – ABA therapy is pretty universally condemned. The other thing you can do is always presume competence – she may not look like she understands but odds are high she does. Good luck!



  • I have a friend from high school who has an autistic son, she was also diagnosed as an adult when her son was. She is now an advocate and adviser. Search Lou Brown on Facebook, she’s incredible with lots of good tried and tested hints and tips


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