My 6yr old autistic daughter was recently suspended for 4 days for running out the classroom and going to the playground and refusing to go back to class.

Is this actually worthy of suspension? I feel as though the school just can not be bothered to try and help her and would rather her be at home as they call me 2-3 times a week before lunch to go pick her up due to “bad behaviour”


Posted by Mandi2406, 22nd March 2019


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  • Your daughter should not be suspended. This is crazy. It is the schools duty of care to assist her in the classroom via an aide and processes put in place to help her when she is struggling with rules and learning etc. Speak to the principal and if your childs needs are not being met I would take it further. Some schools are great and cater for kids with disabilities so maybe a change of school might be the best for her. Good luck



  • I dont think its worthy of being suspended.



  • That does not need a suspension! When my kids were at school, I remember kids using a lighter on another kids hair. One kid cracked open a pencil sharpener and took out the blade to slash the seats on the school bus and threaten another child. A guinea pig was bought into class to show the kids, one kid threw it across the room then threw chairs and swore at the teacher for trying to stop him. None of these kids in these incidents was suspended, they just got a talking to from the principal.



  • no that certainly does not warrant a suspension. I would make time to speak with the principal. If you don’t get anywhere call the local educational services team on 131 536 who can assist and provide advice and support.



  • Shouldn’t she have right to an extra teacher that stays with her during school time?



  • That’s not cool at all they have everything they need to get help and that’s definitely what they should be doing. Not sure where you are or if it’s a small school and there are no other options school wise but maybe research as much as you can and get a meeting with the school and sit down and ask them to formulate a plan for your daughter she deserves to be supported and the earlier they do it the better it will be for her but also the school.



  • She was diagnosed before school began this year and the school were made aware of this and a copy of the report given before school started. They have done nothing to obtain help for her, not even an SSO



  • Depends on the circumstances if she is diagnosed and the school has a teachers aide and the capacity to help her they should be doing more but if not it might be the only option for the school. It’s hard for teachers with a full class.


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