My ex and I have been divorced for 7 years. We have two girls, 14 and 12 now. It was very messy divorce and he’s been making my life very difficult! The main thing was the child support and him being in control of every aspect of girls lives. The girls were with me 9 nights and he had them 5 but then I gave in and we have them 50-50. He is very manipulative and money hungry and he convinced the girls that I shouldn’t be receiving child support because I’m not giving them enough money. So he and the girls created a private agreement document with their signatures that he is going to pay child support into girls accounts that only he has access, $250 per fortnight each so they can learn how to deal with money! And that if I don’t sign that the girls can choose where they’re going to live! I felt sick that he is using girls like tools to get what he wants and that he turn them against me! So I told them that they can pack their things and they can live with their dad full time from now on! I told them that their behaviour lately has been very bad but this just top it of! I feel bad for sending them to him but I was pushed into corner and I feel betrayed by them. I feel very hurt and don’t know what to do! Please help!!
Posted anonymously, 13th August 2014