feels like a bad mum but we arnt

We all need to take time out for ourselves!

Hey, having children doesn’t mean you stop being an individual person with your own needs and dreams….course you need time off! Not sure if the problem is that you can’t get the time off you need, but if that’s the case – I was just commenting to someone else that one trick is to hire a babysitter to come to your house to give you a few hours of headspace or ‘me time’. You can find someone cheap locally (even a student) and because you are home, there is less worry and you are still there if really needed for something. But you’ll get some time off and feel less guilty about needing some time to yourself.